I’m pretty sure David didn’t wake up one morning wanting to displease the LORD (2Sam. 11:27b). I’m confident he didn’t start his day intent on “despising the word” of the LORD or doing “what was evil in His sight” (2Sam. 12:9a). But the decision he made that day would have lasting consequences and result in unimaginable collateral damage.
In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel. And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem.
(2Samuel 11:1 ESV)
David sent Joab . . . David remained in Jerusalem. I’m thinking that’s pertinent information for the story about to play out.
I don’t think David sending out Joab was sin itself. After all, a king has a lot to attend to and laying siege to a city can be long, long, endeavor. The wrongdoing was not inherently the fact that David remained in Jerusalem, it’s what David does while he’s there. And what he does while he’s there is such a sad, sad, sad story.
How do great, godly leaders, get tripped up in sin? 2 Samuel 11 gives us some insight as to how. It might start with an attitude towards coasting — being lax towards attending to the things that need to be attended to. We might infer that it often starts with having others do for them what they should be doing for themselves. We might also note that not only did David not go with his army, it sounds like he wasn’t doing much kingly business while staying back in Jerusalem. For on the day “it happened”, David had been laying in bed until “late one afternoon” (2Sam. 11:2). Idleness seems to have been at play towards his waywardness.
So, David is perhaps not where he should be. And, where he is, it sounds like he’s not attending to the things he would be if he was intentional about being king. And so, “it happened late one afternoon” that he saw her, and he took her, and she came, and he lay with her” (2Sam. 11:4). Heavy, heavy sigh! How sad.
And as I hover over these seemingly inconsequential acts of David (the acts of remaining at Jerusalem and sleeping in one afternoon . . . not the acts of seeing, taking, and laying with another man’s wife), I can’t help but think of how a little leaven really can make such a mess of a whole lot. Of how temptation really can start with being lured by one’s own desire, like the desire to not go do what you should be doing that day. Of how temptation can be fed when we are enticed by the thought of coasting a little because, “Hey, who’ll know?” But even “inconsequential” temptations, like being okay with a bit of irresponsibility and laziness, when they are “conceived” can give “birth to sin.” “And sin when it is fully grown brings forth death” (James 1:14-15). Death to a valiant soldier (2Sam. 11:14-15). Death to an innocent baby (2Sam. 12:14-19). Death to the possibility of an untarnished legacy (2Sam. 12:11-12).
All because David sent Joab.
But — oh what a glorious word is “but” — the LORD sent Nathan (2Samuel 12:1).
A voice to confront the sin in order to restore the sinner. A voice to show God’s kindness in leading David to repentance (2Sam. 13a). A voice, though amidst the carnage of consequence and collateral damage, of “no condemnation.”
And Nathan said to David, “The LORD also has put away your sin; you shall not die.
(2Samuel 12:13b ESV)
The LORD has put away your sin . . .
How deep are the wells of grace? Pretty deep! How “finished” is the work of the cross? Pretty finished. How great is God’s forgiveness? Pretty great.
David sent Joab. In hindsight, kind of a dumb move.
But the LORD sent Nathan. So that . . .
. . . where sin increased, grace abounded all the more . . .
(Romans 5:20 ESV)
And the Father sent the Son, Jesus, the greater Nathan.
“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
(Luke 23:34 ESV)
Hallelujah! What a Savior!
Amen?
